When Amber first came to Zelma, she couldn’t communicate. This caused frustration and anger, which turned into aggression. With Zelma’s help, Amber learned sign language. This let her release anger through communication. Zelma has continued to use communication as a foundation to caring for the girls. Amber has also learned to eat solid foods, and she can wash, dry, and fold her laundry. In addition, she’s studying to use a talking keyboard and has learned to write words and simple sentences. Swimming, bowling, ice skating, and rollerblading are some of her favorite activities. Currently, Amber is in a vocational program learning to work as a hotel housekeeper.

After adopting Amber, Zelma felt it was only natural for Amber to have siblings. Nikki was the second girl Zelma adopted. Zelma has helped Nikki greatly, and she has developed a way to communicate with her verbally. Nikki talks a lot, which is a big leap from only speaking a few words before living with Zelma. Now, she’s fifteen and is home schooled.

Zana was the next to be adopted. She can’t speak but she occasionally indicates when she needs to use the bathroom. Zana was diagnosed as deaf, but Zelma has her doubts. Zelma said Zana was on the deck and when she opened a bag of chips in the house, Zana came running in to eat some. Zana had resided in a group home without the likelihood of being adopted and having a forever family before she was placed with Zelma.

Robbin was just adopted by Zelma. Since coming into the family in November of 2005, Robbin has gone from withdrawn to lively. She loves to dance around the house and listen to music. She’s also very verbal and can count to five.

Zelma and the girls are quite active. They have a large, fenced-in yard with a huge play set. They’re also involved with the Special Olympics, have popcorn and movie nights, and they shop.

Zelma feels others should adopt children who need special care because “there are thousands of children that do not have permanent homes.” She believes there’s a parent for every child—it’s just a matter of finding the right match. She also said that matches can’t be made without a reputable agency like D.A. Blodgett for Children.

For her hard work, compassion, and dedication, D.A. Blodgett for Children thanks Zelma Messer for her many years of service. She opened a world of possibilities for four young ladies who would not have had a future filled with hope, happiness, and a forever family without her.